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Michael Jackson: The candles are still lit for him



The Man on the Balcony


A few years ago, during my visit to the United States, I passed through Beverly Hills. My guide pointed out a residence once associated with Michael Jackson and began sharing stories , of how fans would gather, waiting for just a glimpse, hoping he might appear on a balcony and wave.


It reminded me of something very familiar. In India too, outside the homes of beloved film stars, people wait patiently, looking up at balconies as though they hold something more than just a person. Almost a presence.


And strangely, as I stood there, I could see it.


I could almost visualise him  standing on that balcony, quiet yet magnetic, while people waited below, holding onto a moment they would carry with them for a lifetime. Even years later, that image never quite left me.


When I passed by, a few candles were still lit.


It had been more than a decade since his passing, yet people continued to come, to remember. That kind of remembrance doesn’t arise from fame alone. It speaks of connection. Of kindness. Of something deeply human that people felt and refused to let go of.


That is where my confusion begins.


Years later…Having now watched his story unfold on screen, that memory feels even more alive. I won’t say I fell in love with him as a person. Like many, I often found him unusual perhaps even “weird,” a word he didn’t entirely deny himself. But what I have come to deeply admire are his words, his silences, and the life that shaped them. l became more interested in his life.


A child who began performing at five, under the strict father Joe Jackson, grew up in a world that never allowed him to be ordinary. There were no friendships, no toys ….only rehearsals, performances and the weight of expectation.


Perhaps that is why he searched for comfort elsewhere.He would just talk to animals, read books, watched Charlie Chaplin… but was lonely inside. He stayed in a world untouched by judgement.

Stories of him surrounding himself with unusual companions : a chimpanzee, a llama, creatures that seemed to stand in for human company ,no longer feel strange to me. They feel like quiet attempts to belong somewhere safe.


And yet, alongside this image of ann innocent smile ,exists another one that is filled with accusations, controversies, and questions that refuse to fade.


How does someone remembered with such tenderness also carry allegations so heavy?


I still find myself unable to accept any single version completely.


Because when I listen to Man in the Mirror, I don’t just hear a song ,I hear a plea for self-examination. When I listen to They Don’t Care About Us, I hear anger directed at systems that continue to fail people even today. And in Heal the World, I hear a longing for a gentler, kinder existence almost desperate in its sincerity.


These didn’t feel like performances. They felt like keen observations of truth that no one dared to talk about.

There are also countless stories of hospital visits, of time spent with children battling illness, of small and quiet acts of care that never made headlines. Some accounts feel almost unbelievable ,moments people describe as inexplicably joyful, as though being in his presence shifted something in them. Whether or not such things can be verified doesn’t erase the fact that people experienced him that way.


And perhaps that matters too.


Because beyond the performer, beyond the spectacle, there was a person :deeply loved, deeply questioned, and perhaps deeply misunderstood.


What remains undeniable is the way he made people feel.


The way he could step onto a stage and create something almost transcendent. The way his words still feel relevant, still echo across time, still ask uncomfortable questions about the world we live in.


So I remain here with admiration, with doubt, with a kind of unresolved empathy.


Not trying to declare him perfect.

Not ready to condemn him completely.


Just standing, like a spectator, looking up at a balcony —


wondering if the person we saw was ever truly the whole story.


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