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when Shiva comes back

  When Shiva Comes Back. My relationship with Shiva has never been linear. As a child and through my early years, I was deeply drawn to Shiva, and chanting His name felt natural and effortless, and almost like breathing, and before marriage my devotion to Shiva was steady and intimate. After marriage life gently shifted, and I began visiting the Gurudwara more often, and the rhythm of shabad kirtan entered my days, and for some time I immersed myself in that devotion, and later I found myself chanting bhajans, and gradually my heart moved toward Lord Hanuman, and strength and surrender and protection became meaningful to me. And yet Shiva kept returning. Not dramatically, and not insistently, but quietly, and like an old presence that never truly leaves. This Maha Shivratri felt like meeting Him again after a long pause. I was not inside a temple, and I was not among a physical crowd, and I was at home watching the live celebration from the Isha Foundation, and softly...
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How chanting helps me?

  When the Heart Becomes Audible There are evenings when I can hear my own heartbeat. Not metaphorically, but physically. Thoughts gather speed, responsibilities grow heavier, and the mind begins solving problems that have not yet arrived. In such moments, logic does not help me. Sound does. Chanting, for me, is not ritual. It is return. It is the quiet act of stepping back into the spectator seat of my own turbulence. As a child, I began chanting the Gayatri Mantra. I did not understand its depth then. I only knew that it was something my parents taught me, especially before sleeping at night. It became part of my rhythm, like brushing my teeth or folding my hands in gratitude. The sound settled into memory long before meaning did. Even today, I feel that much depends on what our parents give us in those quiet formative years. What they repeat before we sleep often stays with us for life. The Gayatri Mantra has lived in my mind ever since, and in ways I did not recognise the...

Marriage in an age of quick endings

  Marriage in an Age of Quick Endings By Nidhi Guglani Marriage, at its best, is a shared decision to witness life together—its seasons, its silences, and its steady transformations. As an institution, it has survived centuries not because it is perfect, but because it has allowed people to grow within it, sometimes slowly, sometimes painfully, often imperfectly. I am writing this on my wedding anniversary, at a moment when two divorce cases are unfolding close to me. Standing at this intersection of celebration and separation, I find myself observing rather than judging, thinking rather than concluding. In recent times, I have seen relationships end at very different points. A marriage barely a month old, continuing despite unresolved emotional histories. Another, built over a decade or more, dissolving quietly because somewhere along the years, the effort to stay connected stopped feeling mutual. Then there is the difficult truth of a marriage that appeared pleasant on the ...

when tragedy becomes a headline and grief gets lost

  When Tragedy Becomes a Headline, and Grief Gets Lost When the news of the plane crash broke, I was in school, conducting my classes, immersed in the ordinary rhythm of the day. The message reached us quietly, and then everything shifted. Conversations spread through the corridors, disbelief settled into faces, and routines suddenly felt hollow. One of the pilots was the youngest — a former student from our school. Most of the teachers had taught her, or at least seen her grow, walk through the halls, smile at familiar faces. I never taught her myself, yet her pleasing smile still comes vividly before my eyes. It’s strange how loss works that way — how someone you barely knew can still leave behind a deep ache. It is heartbreaking for everyone associated with her, just as it is for the families and loved ones of all the others who died in the crash. And yet, when the headlines appeared, the focus shifted quickly. A politician. A female pilot. Speculation. Analysis. Politic...