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Work, Passion, and the Life We Forget to Live

Work, Passion, and the Life We Forget to Live Work, Passion, and the Life We Forget to Live There is a quiet question that often sits somewhere at the back of our minds: How important is work in a person’s life? Some people spend their entire lives proving themselves at the workplace. They chase recognition, promotions, achievements, and the satisfaction that comes from being seen as capable and successful. Their work becomes their identity, their pride, and sometimes even their reason for waking up each morning. Yet, while they are building this world of accomplishments, their family may slowly begin to feel the absence of their time and attention. On the other hand, there are people who place their family at the very centre of their lives. Work, for them, is simply something that needs to be finished so that they can return home—to conversations at the dinner table, to children waiting to tell their stories, to the comfort of being present for the people who matter most. Thei...
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Before the last breath

  Before the Last Breath Death is one of those subjects we rarely speak about openly. It sits quietly in the background of life—acknowledged, yet avoided. Recently, while reading The Collected Addresses, I came across the idea of “deathbed diaries.” These were reflections written by people who were close to death—people who, knowing their time was limited, chose to leave behind confessions, advice, or regrets. What struck me most was the observation that many of them shared regrets. Reading those reflections made me pause and turn the question inward. If I were in that moment, what would I say? Would I have a confession? Advice? Regrets? When I look at my life so far, I feel I have lived it fully in many ways. Yet, like most people, I realise there are also unspoken parts of life. There are people we loved but never told. Feelings we carried quietly. Moments when hesitation spoke louder than courage. Life events, disappointments, and betrayals slowly teach us to be c...

The quiet strength of leadership

  The Quiet Strength of leadership  I’ve stepped into leadership roles both professionally and at home, and it’s rarely straightforward. People come in all varieties, and pleasing everyone is a myth. (I’ve written about this before: learn to say “no” and let go of impossible expectations.) But what about the tough ones? Those who throw tantrums, manipulate subtly, or stir trouble when they can’t get their way directly? As a leader, you must remain calm yet firm—reinforcing that rules and protocols exist for good reason, inefficiency blocks progress, and higher roles demand accountability. Handling situations like these also makes you realise something deeper about leadership itself. Leadership is not a role everyone naturally steps into. In fact, not everybody can be a leader. Many are comfortable being part of the group, contributing in their own way, but leadership demands something extra—responsibility, emotional balance, and the willingness to stand firm even whe...

The power of the unseen narrator

  The Power of the Unseen Narrator Sometimes, after the costumes are removed and the glamour dissolves, what lingers is not the face of the heroine but the voice in the background. While watching Bridgerton and Gossip Girl, I realised that the real authority in both worlds does not belong to the socialite, the debutante, or the queen bee. It belongs to the unseen narrator — Lady Whistledown and Gossip Girl. They are not seated at the centre of the ballroom. They do not demand attention. Yet they command it. They do not create events ,they interpret them. They do not raise their voices , they frame the story. And in framing the story, they create reality. That is power. What fascinated me most was not the secrecy but the commentary. The real background score of these series is not the violins or the orchestra but the narration. A steady stream of observation guiding how we feel, what we suspect, whom we trust. And then a quiet realisation emerged. Isn’t that what o...