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Beyond the Glitter: A Reflection on a Wedding



Most people speak of a wedding in glittering terms—the outfits, the music, the food, the grand entry of the couple. Yet a wedding is far more than what meets the eye. It is not just about the bride and groom; it is also about the family’s heartbeat, steady and unseen, keeping the celebration alive.


Beneath the sparkle lies another layer—the parents’ eyes shifting between joy and responsibility, siblings carrying out tasks like invisible threads holding the fabric together, elders blessing quietly, their presence more powerful than words. These are the moments that give depth to the festivity.


The ceremonies—Ramayana Path, Bhajan Sandhya, Mata ki Chowki—are not only rituals, but pauses where devotion and duty merge. A wedding is not a single event, but a tapestry of countless unseen efforts woven into something beautiful. By the time the Sagan feast and the grand wedding unfold, the joy is not just in the celebration but in the harmony created by everyone’s part. The musical feras carry a unique power—while the couple circles the sacred fire, it feels as if the entire family too circles around them, protecting, blessing, carrying them forward.


The true grandeur of a wedding lies not in its sparkle, but in the unseen strength of togetherness. Joy multiplies not through the stage moments, but through the silent acts of love and responsibility that no camera captures.


In the end, the beauty of a wedding is not only in the vows taken, but in the silent vows a family keeps—to stand together, unseen yet indispensable, in love and in responsibility.


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